The fact that different guys pick you up every Friday night does not make you a big girl. The fact that you wear all latest clothes in the market, does not make you a big girl.
A big girl is a girl with enough brain in her, not the one with more money.
The girl that think of consequences before actions. She is not the one who flirt with all men around her. She is the one who respects her relationship and marriage. She is never heard but seen. You know her by what she does, her behavior speaks a lot about her.
She is every man's queen, decently dressed....always decently good looking.
A big girl respects the value of womanhood..... She carries herself with more dignity. Stop boasting about the number of men you have slept with my dear.. Remember, cheap articles always have more buyers..... Sleeping with all your male friends doesn't mean you are sexy.
Build yourself into the woman people will always respect and admire, Don't follow men who will make a mess of your life.....but be humble, be Godly....be hard-working, respect your relationship or marriage, be ambitious but contented...be bold don't make men a priority in life.
Men will seek after you when you build yourself into the woman men will always want to take home to their mothers. Not the one they only want to take to hotels and clubs. TRUST ME, If you trap a man with your body, he will go one day. A lady without morals and dignity is like a phone without sim card.